Very exciting night last night in Omaha… About 210-220 am we had a big thunderstorm roll in, wild wind, heavy rain, lots of lighting, and then the sirens went off. We had a tornado less then 1/4 mile from the house, lots of broken trees, ripped off roofs, and damaged houses. Thankfully, we had no damage at hour house, although Mom and Dad (Rachel and John) had the neighbor’s tree in their driveway. No damage to their property, just a lot of branches and leaves.

Today was a long day, back to work after a busy weekend. As many of you know, Leah returned to work at St. James United Methodist in Bellevue last week, and we took one more step on the road to recovery. Leah was very pleased to get back to work, not only to once again use her brain, but also to start to give back to the folks at St. James who have been so wonderful to us. Going back to work was a bit of a challenge for Leah, as we had to work on getting her back behind the wheel, getting up early, and finding the stamina to stay at work and be active all day. She came home many nights last week, looking tired, but she seemed very pleased to be back.

Returning to work was also a bittersweet event for Leah as well. As many of you know, Leah and Renee spent many hours emailing and chatting with each other in between the various documents and phone calls, and many times would come home and call each other up on the phone to laugh and talk some more. The two of them spent so much time talking and laughing that Zack and I really never had much to talk about, as the girls had filled us in on the goings on so much that we had nothing new to share with each other. The time that the girls spent chatting with each other helped pass those days when the bulletin was done, newsletters printed and the phone was quiet. So as Leah returned to work, she was returning to a place where she and Renee had had many happy moments, but where now the little chat window would stay blank, and the email box empty…

Leah continues to attend PT sessions, and continues to show marked improvement towards a full recovery. She increased all her range of motion measurements by another 15-20 degrees, and has added some strengthening exercises to her 3 times daily routine. We now have different colored thera-bands (giant rubber bands of varying levels of resistance) hanging from the banister and door knobs, a hammer, and an assortment of various contractions such as pulleys and peg boards for her to use. She has almost completely recovered full range of motion in her wrist, and only has about 5 more degrees of rotation before she would have full range. She is slowly gaining strength in the hand, and each day is more capable of doing more.

Rachel is also continuing to make great strides down the road to recovery. Her skin grafts continue to heal, and are beginning to look a little less red, and more pink. The swelling continues to go down in the hand thanks to vigorous Occupational Therapy and lots of interesting little contraptions like her “bionic hand” which is a computer controlled machine that randomly flexes her fingers and hand to start to force the edema out of the hand and down into the arm. One of the areas of concern for the doctors is that there may be some vein damage under the area where the skin graft is on the wrist, and that may be preventing some of the fluids from being removed as quickly by the body. Her PT and little devices have really helped however, and the swelling has begun to go down, in fact enough that her fingers are beginning to look normal. Her foot continues to heal, and she was cleared to discontinue use of the walking boot. She is able to walk fairly well, in fact she and Dad resumed walking at the lake every day, although the walk is much shorter. Her more active movements helped to reduce the small clot in the leg, and at her screening last week, it was found that the clot had completely been absorbed. She was able to be removed from the blood thinners she was on.

She did receive a little bit of discouraging news last week, as it was found her ribs are not healing nearly as fast as they would like. Some of this is due to the other damage her body is having to repair, but some of it is also a result of her inability to use her right arm a great deal. As the muscles in the torso get used, they tend to move the rib bones back into position allowing them to heal. Her relative lack in motion in that arm is not allowing the muscles to pull the bones into place as effectively, therefore not allowing the ribs to calcify.

I would like to take a moment to pass on our condolences to the Duethman family who lost Terry earlier this month, and let them know that all of us in the Hall family are praying for you and are here for you should you need anything at all.

I would like to give a quick shout out to our dear friends Paige and Marc, who were married this past weekend in Oklahoma City. Congratulations you guys, I hope that you will have a happy, loving and joyous marriage, and Leah and I look forward to seeing you guys soon!

I would like to end tonight with a quick little thought about Renee. Tonight we had dinner with my parents and my aunt Kathy who is visiting from Florida, and while we were sitting around the table sharing stories, laughing and enjoying the wonderful meal my father prepared for us, I remembered how we always used to sit around the table with Renee and Zack when they would come and visit, laughing and talking long after the meal was over. That simple act of companionship and love personified and defined Renee. She was always one to share a smile and a laugh, lend a helping hand, or just be there for you. She celebrated life, and helped all of us live just a little bit more.

Thanks to all of you out there who help us, support us and pray for us. You keep us strong and with your help we will get better. We can never express our gratitude enough for the overwhelming support and generosity our family, friends and complete strangers have extended to us.

J

Quick little update, mostly as a chance to send out some quick thanks out to some folks. We had another good day today, as Leah has decided to completely stop taking the Percocet and transition over to taking ibuprofen. This is a positive step, as that means Leah’s overall pain level has dropped, and she has decided that she is tired of the side effects of the Percocet. She seemed very upbeat today, and slept very well last night.

We had a big night Friday night, as Britanie got back into town, so we had Grandma and Grandpa Kunc, my aunts Marsha and Karen, and Britanie over for dinner. We had a good dinner provided by Grandma, and lots of good conversations between everyone. We were all thrilled to see Britanie, and she was very happy to see us. It was a good chance for her to unpressurize a bit, and start thinking about going to Harvard. Karen brought a really good Bundt cake for dessert and it was enjoyed by all. Marsha brought us some fresh sweet corn from Columbus, and some more home grown potatoes. Jay and Lori and their boys stopped by later in the evening to deliver some fresh drawings that Thomas and JJ had drawn for Leah. The drawings helped her feel even better, as did watching the boys tear about the yard. Thanks to all of them!

We did load Karen up with some stuff to take out to Mom and Dad in Denver, as she was heading out that way for a workshop. She planned on stopping by to visit with Mom late today, and promised to give them all a hug or a squeeze for us. I did get a call from Dad this evening saying Karen had safely made it to Denver, and she and Mom were happily chatting away. He even sent us a picture to prove it!

Karen and Rachel chatting away…

Here in Omaha, we had a very busy day with lots of visitors from my work EDM. Jayne stopped by early in the afternoon to give us a few more meals for us, which we sampled gladly at dinner this evening, and I am sure we will enjoy the coffee cake tomorrow morning. She also spoiled us by baking some of her famous cookies, which prompted Leah to remark that “Jayne sure did know how to bake!” after sampling one of the white chocolate macadamia nut cookies. Just as Jayne was taking off, Barb stopped by to visit, and she was carrying a wonderful ice cream cake for us. We had a very nice talk with her, and are very glad she could stop by. We are looking forward to that Ice cream cake tomorrow as well. I figure I might gain some of the weight back that I lost while not eating at the hospital! So once again, thanks to those two wonderful ladies for taking care of us, and bringing a bit of cheer into our day.

Right after Barb left, Mary stopped by with her massage table. We managed to get Leah up on the table and relaxing comfortably while Mary prepared to give Leah a nice relaxing massage. Nearly an hour and 15 minutes later, Leah was having to be helped up off the table, a relaxed look on her face, and a big smile lighting up the room. She said that this was the best she had felt since before the accident, and her shoulder was completely pain free! It really is amazing what some gentle touch in the right spots can do for eliminating discomfort. Right after Leah was finished, Mary told a semi-trepidatious Britanie to jump up on the table, and worked some of the tension and knots that come from sleeping in a hospital room right out. Brit got up with a pretty happy look on her face, and said that she was going to have to look into this massage stuff more often! Mary receives a big thanks from all of us, especially from the girls for helping relax them!

I promised pictures of the famous “bearometer” so I am following thru :

The whole Bearometer…

The grumpiest Teddy bear I have ever seen…

This guy doesn’t get used much!

I hope this bear get used a lot more!!

Thanks again to everyone for the continued emails, calls and cards. We can’t thank all of you enough. Please continue to keep Zack and his family in your thoughts and prayers, and keep praying that the girls will be able to continue to improve. Thanks again for your generosity, your love, and your support. To use the words from a card that was sent to us by Bill and Judith’s good friend Jan that pretty much sums up the way we feel, “We have a circle of friends surrounding us, constantly lifting us back up, never letting us fall. Their support is a pillar of strength that keeps us strong, even when we are feeling weak.” This phrase pretty much sums up what Leah and I feel about the love that we are constantly receiving. Your help and love allows us to have our weak moments; the moments where we need to cry, to be overwhelmed, to question, and to mourn, so we can heal our spirits. your love and support has provided us a safety net that will not let us fall.

Jay

Its been a fairly quiet weekend here in Omaha when compared to the folks in Denver. Leah and I entertained a few guests, Jerry and two of his kids, Adam and Courtney stopped by to deliver my truck back to me, and to also to stop by and see Leah. We also had my cousin Christina and her new husband Cody stop by after their trip to the Henry Doorley Zoo. They were quickly entertained by my coworker Rod, his wife Lori and their very cute daughter Rori, who quickly became the star of the show!

Lori brought over a wonderful casserole for dinner, and Rod had found a nice loaf of garlic bread to finish it off. Lori was a bit annoyed that Rod didn’t get them a loaf too, as the bread smelled quite delicious. A special thanks goes out to Rod and Lori for feeding us this weekend! It was delicious!

Mary (another coworker) stopped by for a bit later in the evening, and brought a little cheer with her. She came “BEAR”-ing gifts for us in the form of a basketful of teddy bears appropriately labeled “Leah’s Bearometer.” There were four different bears, each with a special tag around it’s neck which stated a mood. The bears are for Leah to set out and let us all know how she is doing. There was the “I’m feeling beautiful, Smooch Me” bear, the “I’m feeling grumpy so don’t mess with me” bear, the “I need a hug” bear, and finally the “I’m ready for PT” bear. Leah said I can probably hide the “I’m ready for PT” bear, as she isn’t sure she ever is ready for PT. The bear’s were a real hit, and I will have to get some pictures taken, as the bear really fit their personalities!

Mary also brought a little medicine for me, in the form of a six pack of Empyrian Brewing Co’s Dark Vanilla Porter beer. She said I looked like I could use a few. She also said that Leah couldn’t be left out of the drink department, but since she is on blood thinners and pain meds, she brought over a package of Key Lime Creme Soda, which Leah had never had, but now loves. Mary also spoiled Leah by giving her a bit of a left shoulder massage, and helping release and relax some of the knots in her upper back. Leah said that she felt like a limp noodle, and as soon as Mary left, she went and took a nice deep nap.

A special thanks goes out to our good friends Lori and Jay for bringing by dinner and a quick visit on Friday night. Once again, delicious food, and bountiful enough quantities that we were able to get two meals out of it. All the wonderful food that people are making for us, means that I don’t have to cook, which really is one less task on my plate. I can’t thank all of you guys for your help enough.

Leah loves having visitors, as it makes her day go by that much faster. She likes seeing people, and getting to see her and how she is doing can also help pick some people’s spirits up a bit. I also think she likes people to come over, as it stops her from having to just stare at me all the time, which I say is probably quite boring.

Tomorrow we head over to an orthopedic surgeon to have Leah’s shoulder looked at. Hopefully we will get a good prognosis, and get to start doing more advance PT so we can get her back to a more normal life. Leah is very anxious to be able to get back to doing stuff for herself, as those of you who know her know, she is very independent.

I actually did finally get a good nights sleep last night, had one of those Mary prescribed medications with dinner, and Leah and I sat back and watched a nice movie and just relaxed. I had a pretty good night, and slept fairly soundly thru most of the night. This is a big improvement over the last few nights, where I have pretty much been sleepless either to me dreaming about unpleasant things, or me being awake at the slightest little noise from Leah. I call it my Ninja nurse, as she makes a noise, and I jump up out of bed ready to help with whatever. Leah says that it is a bit freaky, as she even moves the sheets, and I pop up and am like what do you need, how can I help etc… I guess that is good, as I am trying to help out.

Well I have to get her ready for bed, early morning tomorrow, and a very busy rest of the day. I hope to see some more folks stop by and see us. I know we will be home in the evenings, and people are welcome to stop by and say hi. (Leah just read this, and told me to tell you guys that you are welcome to stop by during the day as well, you just might not see me…) Just be sure to give us a call so I can have a chance to powder my nose…

Thanks again for all the generous sharing of love and prayers…
J

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